There is Room For the Poor Daughter - Chapter 103

[Chapter 103, The Importance of Identity Equivalence]

Daohua’s tenth birthday was not a big event, and she didn’t invite girls from various families to come over to play. She just ate a bowl of longevity noodles with her family and passed.

“Daohua, haven’t you been in touch with the Zhou family girl all the time? Why didn’t you call anyone over to sit at home today?”

After eating longevity noodles, Mrs. Li, Sun, Wu, and Yan Yihuan, Yan Yishuang, Yan Yile and the others were sitting in the old lady’s room, chatting with the old lady.

Daohua glanced at the second aunt who meant something, Yan Wenjie failed to go to Wangyue Academy, after all, it still made the people in the second room feel bad: “I have only known sister Zhou for a long time, so I don’t want to invite her rashly. ”

Sun shook her head, disagreeing, and said: “Daohua, it’s not the second aunt who said you. Deep.”

Daohua smiled: “What the second aunt said is true, but I think that when dealing with each other, we should pay attention to equality of status, so that we can get along comfortably, don’t you think so?”

Mrs. Zhou was the former chief assistant, Mr. Tuesday He is the current Minister of the Ministry of Officials, and the family status of the Zhou family is much higher than that of the Yan family.

Don’t look at the fact that the Zhou family treats the Yan family pretty well nowadays, but it’s all because of Xiao Yeyang’s face, not because of the Yan family itself.

If the Yan family were to flatter them rashly at this time, the Zhou family might not say anything on the surface, but in private, they might look down on the Yan family.

Besides, Zhou Jingwan seems to be a pampered person at first glance, she needs to be supported and pampered all the time, and she usually sends gifts to each other to maintain a relationship, so she won’t take the initiative to invite people to her to make her feel uncomfortable Woolen cloth.

Mrs. Sun didn’t expect Dao Hua to say that, she was a little surprised, and then smiled again: “You girl, you care too much. Why do you need to think so much about the play and communication between you little girls?”

“Listen to my second aunt, send an invitation to the girl from the Zhou family, and get closer to her. The Zhou family has a lot of contacts in Xingzhou. If she brings you sisters, you and the girls from all the families in Xingzhou City will definitely meet you.” Get to know each other quickly.”

This is her goal, to let her two daughters go out to socialize more.

After coming to Xingzhou City, she deeply realized the importance of identity.

In the county town, even though she is only the younger brother and sister of the county magistrate, and the head of the family is only white, she can still visit each family alone as a guest.

But in Xingzhou City, unless the sister-in-law leads her, she can’t even enter the gate of other people’s houses.

She couldn’t get in, let alone her two daughters.

The life of being the head of the family has been finalized. If the two daughters want to have a good future, they can’t rely on their own father. Now they can still count on Wenjie.

But even if Wenjie is promising, it will be many years later.

Let the two daughters have more contact with the ladies of the official family. In any case, their knowledge and vision will definitely be improved. Isn’t this better than staying at home and studying hard?

As soon as these words came out, the three of Yan Yihuan looked at Daohua, obviously, these words entered their hearts.

Daohua’s expression faded, and she found that the people in the second bedroom seemed to like to teach people how to do things, the second uncle was like this, and the second aunt was still like that.

When interacting with people, she pays attention to going with the flow, and doesn’t like to study too much, especially with utilitarian purposes.

Mrs. Yan didn’t know much about the social rules of the big family, and thought that it would be a good thing for Daohua to get in touch with girls of the same age, so she didn’t say anything.

Mrs. Li is aware of the rules of dealing with each other. Although the communication between children does not need to be so particular, their behavior is still affected by the status of the family.

For example, if Daohua and the others are in contact with Miss Zhou’s family, then, facing Miss Zhou’s family, Daohua and the others can only be subdued.

Mrs. Li glanced at her obviously unhappy daughter and Mrs. Sun, who seemed to be persuading her, and stopped talking with a smile: “I haven’t prepared anything today, how can I invite others to my house, next time.”

Immediately, As soon as the voice changed, the topic changed.

Mrs. Wu also helped to change the topic, and looked at the old lady with a smile: “Mother, I heard that the wine you and Daohua jointly brewed is ready to drink?”

Speaking of wine, the old lady immediately became interested. She really didn’t like it. Thinking of it, Daohua can really make wine by sealing the grapes casually.

“You can drink it, it tastes good, and it’s not too intoxicating.”

Daohua smiled and said, “Grandmother, drinking wine is good for your health, but you can’t drink too much. If you like drinking, just drink a glass every day. ” The

old lady nodded: “Don’t worry, your grandmother is not greedy. But you, you are a little greedy cat. When you were opened last time, Man’er carried you back to the yard.”

Daohua smiled mischievously, and really didn’t blame her , the taste of the wine is so good, she drank it directly as a drink, but who knew that the aftertaste was so strong that she fainted.

“The Mid-Autumn Festival is coming soon, and the eldest brother and the others should be on vacation at that time. The fourth brother has been clamoring for wine early in the morning. When they come back, our family can enjoy the moon and drink wine at the same time.” The

old lady heard this . Words, immediately smiled heartily.

When people are old, they like to be surrounded by their children and grandchildren.

Sun said again: “Isn’t the little prince also studying in the academy? Daohua, why don’t you write a letter to the little prince and invite him to our house for the Mid-Autumn Festival?”

Hearing this, Daohua couldn’t help but want to directly I rolled my eyes back.

Why is her second aunt’s face so big?

She doesn’t even want to make friends with the Zhou family rashly, let alone Xiao Yeyang, a child of the royal family!

The status gap is too big, you just have to stand on tiptoe and reach out to reach, aren’t you tired?

She has only one thought for Xiao Yeyang, that is, if he gets close to the Yan family, then she will do her best to repay him, so that the relationship between the two parties can be maintained in a balance of you and me.

But if he alienated the Yan family, then she would not rush to curry favour, because it would probably be useless to do so. With his status, there are too many fawning people, unless there are interests involved, otherwise , don’t mention how disgusting it will be.

Of course, the foundation of the Yan family is weak, and she still hopes to maintain a good relationship with Xiao Yeyang. In this way, although she has taken advantage of him invisibly, she will try her best to make up for it.

Mrs. Li looked a little displeased, and looked at Sun’s lightly: “Second brother and sister, don’t say such things in the future, how can Daohua communicate with the little prince?”

“Also, it is best to go out in front of outsiders in the future .” And don’t mention the matter of the young prince, the royal children are not something ordinary people can talk about.”

Sun’s face was a little stiff, Mrs. Li has always been very kind to her two sisters-in-law, and rarely gets angry, such straightforward words , she would not say it before.

“Sister-in-law, I know.” Sure enough, a woman’s greatest confidence is her husband’s success and her children’s success. My sister-in-law didn’t speak so forcefully before!

After that, Daohua didn’t stay in the house, but went back to Daohuaxuan.

At this time, the Daohua Pavilion is no longer as empty as it was when we first moved in. The wall-climbing roses of various varieties cover the entire corridor of the flower shed, lush and full of flowers.

In the yard, the flower beds are also full of colorful flowers.

The breeze is blowing, and the fragrance is overflowing.

“Girl, the flower shop will open soon. If the business is good, will we have enough flowers to sell?” A lot of flowers in the yard have already been transplanted into pots, so they can’t be moved anymore.

“Don’t worry, I’ve already opened up a piece of land in the village for growing flowers.”

“What about winter?”

“There are greenhouses in winter! Uncle Zheng has to build more greenhouses, one for growing flowers and one for growing vegetables.” You can’t live without vegetables in winter.

(end of this chapter)