There is Room For the Poor Daughter - Chapter 85

[Chapter 85, Position and Responsibility]

Daohua thought that the matter of changing seats should be over like this, but who knows, Master Shen turned around and looked at her again.

“Big girl, I will change seats for you today, what do you think?”

Thoughts, what thoughts?

Daohua’s head turned rapidly.

The master is fair, not afraid of power, and everything is done according to the rules?

Seeing Mrs. Shen’s eyes shining with wisdom, Daohua shook her head, it should not be this, the master probably doesn’t want to hear her flattering, even though she can’t say anything good.

So what exactly did she want to hear?

Master Shen didn’t rush Dao Hua, he picked up the teacup on the table calmly, and took a sip.

Hmm. The tea from Yan’s family is very good. It’s not as expensive as other teas. The tea is just ordinary jasmine tea, but it tastes delicious and refreshing.

Daohua was silent for a while, and seeing Master Shen put down the teacup in his hand, she said uncertainly: “In a family, everyone has their own position, and you can’t take it from others, but don’t let others take it from you.” Are you going?”

Hearing this, Master Shen raised his brows, seemingly satisfied with the answer, but he didn’t say anything, he just motioned for Daohua to continue.

Daohua glanced at her master’s face, and continued, “Sitting in different positions, you need to bear different responsibilities. Just like me, when you sit in a good position, you have to take on greater responsibilities.”

Hearing this, Shen A smile appeared on the master’s face, and he said with satisfaction: “It’s very good that the eldest girl can think of this from the change of position.” After speaking, he looked at the other three girls in the room.

The second girl frowned and pondered, as if feeling something;

the third girl was still aggrieved by the change of seat just now, her eyes were still red; the

fourth girl, her eyes were wandering, and her body was shaking from side to side, obviously she didn’t care about the big girl Yan. Hear what you say.

At this moment, Mrs. Shen had a preliminary impression of the four girls of the Yan family.

Mrs. Shen looked at Daohua who was waiting for his judgment, and said with a smile: “The eldest girl is right, the position is different, and the responsibilities to bear are also different. The resources of the family are always limited, and those who enjoy more resources, The more things that need to be returned to the family in the future.”

“There is nothing in this world that you can get for nothing. You have enjoyed the protection and upbringing of the family now, and you will return it in the future.”

“I change seats. Your seniority is orderly, and the rules of the rank and file; second, I hope you can understand your respective positions in the family and the responsibilities

you need to bear.” “Miss, as the eldest daughter of the Yan family, the four sisters Among them, you are respected, and you have enjoyed good treatment, so you have to take on your own responsibilities. For example, set a good example for your younger brothers and sisters, and shoulder the usual responsibilities of teaching and supervising.”

At the beginning, Daohua felt that She was right, but she couldn’t agree with the last sentence.

Where did she enjoy good treatment?

Food and clothing are the same for everyone.

Well, not quite the same.

She has a courtyard where she lives alone, and she also has a small village as her private property.

Although she bought Zhuangzi with money, if there is no cheap father’s official authority in front of her, she is a little girl, let alone whether she can buy it, even if she does, she can’t keep it.

Thinking about it this way, her treatment seems to be better than Yi Huan’s three.

Mrs. Shen has been paying attention to Daohua, and seeing her disapproving face at first, and then nodding, she is satisfied with this eldest girl of the Yan family, she is a teachable person.

It is not an easy task to make a living in everyone’s backyard. As female wives like them, they are most afraid of encountering people who are not smart enough to teach and will not listen to them.

Regardless of the fact that each family invites them into the mansion under the name of teaching all the girls in the mansion, in fact it is not the case, teaching is a place of teaching, but the energy of the masters is to concentrate on the children born in the main house.

Firstly, no matter how favored the concubines are, it is the wife of the house who hires them and gives them a haircut;

secondly, it comes from an unspoken rule of the aristocratic family, that is, the children of the concubine cannot be better than the children of the concubine, which is not good for the family. Stablize. Of course, there are exceptions.

For example, concubines are really favored, and the treatment of their children is no better than that of concubines, or even better. Of course, such family rules are chaotic, and it is rare to maintain prosperity forever.

What’s more, the descendant’s children are really unbearable, and the mud can’t support the wall. At this time, the concubine will have a chance to stand out.

Either way, it’s rarely encountered.

Therefore, their main duty is to teach their descendants.

In this way, the aptitude of the first-born children is related to the ease of their teaching. After all, parents tend to favor their own children, and it must be the responsibility of the master if they do not learn well.

The eldest girl of the Yan family in front of me is a teachable one; the second girl is quiet and well-behaved, and usually won’t cause trouble; the fourth girl is active, and it’s not difficult to teach if she finds the right interest.

The most difficult thing to deal with was the third girl who started to cry silently.

After seeing so much gossip in the backyard, she told the truth that most of the concubines committed suicide by themselves.

Regardless of whether it is for fame or to maintain the relationship with her husband, except for a very few who are particularly jealous, most of the wives are actually tolerant. As long as the concubine behaves well, it is not wrong to let them get married smoothly. What a problem.

But there are some concubine daughters who pretend to be lofty, and compete with the concubine daughters in all kinds of tricks, so it’s strange that the headed wife is used to it!

“Woo~”

Seeing that Yan Yishuang was crying more and more, Mrs. Shen stretched out his hand to summon the servant girl who served him: “The third girl has some problems she can’t figure out, let her go back to rest today, you send her back to her yard, and then Go to the main courtyard and explain to Mrs. Li.”

So, Yan Yishuang was sent out of the classroom by the maid.

As soon as she left, Mrs. Shen began to check the study progress of Dao Hua and the other three leisurely.

noon.

Daohua left the school with a look of admiration, and when she returned to the main courtyard, she couldn’t wait to say to Mrs. Li: “Mother, the Mrs. Shen you invited is really amazing.

” After looking at the relationship between position and responsibility, and checking their learning progress, they started class.

The classics are quoted in the class, all kinds of stories are readily available, and the witty remarks are continuous, and the classroom atmosphere is very lively.

Seeing that her daughter was so happy, Mrs. Li also smiled: “It’s good if you like it. This Master Shen is knowledgeable and knowledgeable. All the families in Xingzhou like to invite her. You have to learn from the master, especially the etiquette.” This is about the rules.”

“The world is very picky about women, if you want to live calmly and not be picked on by others, you have to learn the etiquette and rules well.”

Daohua took Mrs. Li’s arm and leaned her head on her shoulder: “Mother , don’t worry, I will study hard.”

(End of this chapter)